I keep switching from “wow I need to restrict and become super skinny and dainty” to “I need to eat clean and exercise more and be really fit” to “I can eat whatever the fuck I want, I’m supposed to be recovering after all” and it’s so exhausting. 

I can’t stress enough how accurate this is


Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever been a stripper?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever been to a strip club.

Oh—you wouldn’t date a girl who’s ever done porn?
In that case, I wouldn’t date a guy who’s ever watched porn.

You’re the reason we exist.
You’re the demand to our supply.
If you disdain sex workers, don’t you dare consume our labor.

As they say in the industry, “People jack off with the left hand and point with the right.”




based on extensive observation, I believe that my cats have only a tenuous grasp on how much of my body is “me”

It’s like, Head: definitely Big Friend, note eyes and noise-hole.

Hands: 90% certainty of Big Friend, 10% possibility of toy. comprised of two main parts, the rubby-rubby and the wriggly-scritchers. does Big Friend control them with her mind? the mechanism is unclear.

Arms, aka “Cuddle Snakes”: do these help Big Friend’s hands from getting lost? good place to sit.

Torso: ??? we have no idea what this is. smells like Big Friend but serves no observable purpose. treat as terrain.

Legs, see: “The Lap Conundrum”: 25% chance of Big Friend, totally uninteresting. WHEN LAP: 90% chance of Big Friend, excellently warm. where does the lap go? our finest cat scientists seek the answer to this mystery, but no breakthroughs as of yet.

Feet, aka “Twitchy-Kickers”: 10% chance of Big Friend, 90% chance of foe. all attempts to communicate have ended in hostility. Destroy on sight.



:) long hair

O Negative

You can’t offend Sigur Rós and expect you’ll live to tell.


shout out to all the:

  • physically disabled and chronically ill autistics
  • mentally ill autistics
  • autistic people of colour
  • trans and nonbinary autistics
  • queer autistics

(✿◠‿◠) ♥ you are important and beautiful and so very loved. 


Wow tumblr now shows us when we’ve been tagged/mentioned! Convenient :)

Rule 1: Post the rules

Rule 2: Answer the questions the person who tagged you asked and write 10 new ones

Rule 3: Tag 10 people and link them to the post

Rule 4: Actually tell them you tagged them  With the new tumblr feature, I don’t think this is necessary anymore, but you can always do it just in case.

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